My boyfriend won't commit after two years?

Give it a rest! Women ruin some really good relationships with all this marriage crap. Why marry? What's it gonna do for you? Its just a couple rings, a big party and a piece of paper. You can still live together, buy a house, have kids, etc., if you're not married. NEWSFLASH - If he's your boyfriend and calls you his girlfriend then he's already committed to you. Stop pressuring him... Just because someone doesn't want to rush getting married (or get married at all) doesn't mean they are commitment-phobes.